A StorY of WortHy FrienD
What is the real defination of a worthy friend? Do you know the answer?
Lately, I start to ponder over this question and wonder who has the right to judge if one person is a worthy friend of another person, especially when you don’t even know who is who and what is what. The funny thing is that I happened to come across an incident which indirectly got me involved.
One day, a guy (D) called up his female friend (B). His purpose of calling was a little funny to me. He wanted blessing from B on his relationship with gf (A). All along, B has been rather neutral about the 2 being together and so she find his approach a little off too. Firstly, D and A are already together. So does it really matter whether they have blessing from others if they really love one another. Secondly, if B were not give him her blessing, is D gonna break up with A? Lastly, if D were to give blessing, and things turned out ugly, is D gonna push all the blame to B? Come on lor, B is not a god nor some Goddess of Mercy whom by seeking her blessing, everything will turn out beautifully. If so, think I wanna ask B for some 4-D advice!
Next came another sensitive topic. D told B he felt insecured with his current relationship with A and wanted B to tell him more about A. As an old friend of A and a normal friend to D, B honestly told D things regarding A. Instead of being glad that he has got a chance to know his current gf better, he blew his top and commented that B and all are not worthy friends of A. And that he believed in A and does not wish to speak to B anymore. Before B could even react, he slammed down on her.
I don’t mean to be rude nor taking sides but hello to D, how long have you known A and how much do you know about A? You said you trust her and passed your judgement on B and all saying that all are not worthy friends to A. If you really trust her that much as you said so, would you have feel insecure about this relationship with A? Doubt you would even need to call B for blessing…. Think about it. And if B and all are not worthy friends, would they stood by A after so long when she got hooked up with shit problems? Talking about not worthy…. It definately suits you better Mr D.
August 14th, 2007 at 8:06 am
I am so touched that u stood up for your friend chucky. If i am B, i know that you are a worthy friend. From your story, i understood one thing, is that a worthy friend is difficult to find soooooo i will treasure u man!!! MUACK!!!!!!!!!!